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Well, I can feel your pain. I was the youngest of 3 and a girl. The boys worked just like I did in the family business. They received new Corvettes and Camaro's and were sent to college which they failed to finish. I always got second hand toys and NEVER a Barbie. We were wealthy. It wasn't an issue of money. I had a 200 dollar car and no college. I wanted to be a doctor, but my dad poohed on that. SO how did I handle the disappointment? I got married at age 18 put myself through nursing school and became the success of the family. My mother never failed to say she hated girls and I suppose she had some twisted reason to screw me. Yes, I have mentioned the unfairness and she didn't give a crap. But I got over it and made sure that I got whatever I wanted with my own money. There is no reason to mention because the answer you get will not make you feel better.

When you start your question you say you already know the answer and then towards the end you ask for advice. I think you already know the answer, but may not know how to approach your mother about the situation? Is this true?

She love's you ,She buy you a gift,do you have a price for that?
You have a mother around,she give you a life,do you need more?

She love's you ,She buy you a gift,do you have a price for that?
You have a mother around,she give you a life,do you need more?

Feeellll theee recessssionnn.

I despise families that keep score all of the time! Tell her you are tired of the competition & please leave you out of the loop if she cannot be more fair.
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that really does sound unfair...but don't even try to ask her why she'll just say your "jealous". tell her by letter all the things you feel!!!

That is totally unfair. Speak up talk to hr about it.

Are you a step daughter? I lived with being treated like this my whole life.